TBH and I recently completed three years of marriage and what a beautiful journey it has been.
First year was where we became best of friends, learned about each other, enjoyed each other’s company to no bounds, loved our similarities, accepted our differences. Surprised each other at so many levels. Traveled, loved, made out. It was more of a live in relationship. And I loved every bit of it.
First Anniversary – we re took our vows/phere because I always felt I missed being involved in my actual wedding.
Second year was more of a couple thing :). We became hosts to endless guests, shifted to a new place trying to make it our home, entertained family and friends, attended weddings, took investment and savings decisions, met friends from both ends, together decided to go the family way. And i have never been this secure about my life. Couldn’t have asked for anyone but TBH.
Second Anniversary – I had my first nausea/ vomiting session and was in bed all day. Ordered in and ate. Only a week before we gotta know about Bunny’s arrival and even being bed ridden was quite exciting.
Third year was spent enjoying Bunny in tummy, knowing totally a different side of TBH, preparing for Bunny’s arrival, Bunny entering our lives and letting me feel motions I never knew existed, making our lives beautiful infact more beautiful. Waking to his smile is such a bliss, the kind of happiness only a baby can give. Bunny is turning out to be everything we imagined and infact more. And I owe this to TBH, his assurance about Bunny, his efforts in keeping me happy. His hard work so that we lead a hassle free life, his devotion in giving only the best to bUnny. His confidence in me as a parent. Parenting is so much fun with the better half.
Third Anniversary – woke up with Bunny giggling :). And a cake cutting with family, getting blessings, day him being in office me helping SIL in shopping and shopping for self, and evening endless talks, yummy food and both families at a very nice place. What a wonderful day it was, three years into marriage and I still feel blessed for TBH, for both families, for being so cooperative, so easy going, so good to each other.
And as a anniversary resolution I decided not to let the recent sourness ruin our beautiful dream like relationship. And decided to be easy going, not fussing over things which are not in our control and most importantly doing away with the TAUNTS completely, not even for fun. It’s been two weeks and I can’t tell you how things changed tremendously for me specially between us. TBH has observed these changes and he is so happy as well. A refreshing ness, positivity has filled our lives :). Just a minute change in my attitude is working like a charm.
What a wonderful life 🙂 loving it more each passing day. Leaving you guys with a pic of the delicious fruit cake the sister bought on our anniversary.